Chapter 13
1. Marci has a bade relationship with her parents. Because Marci have own interest, she likes classics; but her parents always want to control her entire life, ask her to learn photography, chemistry and work with Father in the company.
2. Marci gives Sookan advice that Sookan should tell her sister the truth about hard life in college and want to make own decision for the future life. And also suggests that Sookan needs to live her own life, not just imitate her sister's and be the kind of person her sister wants her to be.
3. No. Because I think Sookan is still a Korean girl; although she has realized that she can be more open and expressive since she got America, she has Korean opinion. In her mind, it's the obligation and duty to obey elders. National culture is usually not that easy to forget. So though Sookan has conflict with her sister, but Sookan won't do as what Marci suggests, she won't against her sister in that way as Marci against her parents.
Chapter 14
1. Sister Reed gave Sookan a string of cream-colored pearls with a platinum-and-diamond clasp. Because sister Reed's aunt asked Reed to make a special present of pearls on her behalf when Sister Reed came upon a truly extraordinary young woman. Sister Reed thinks that Sookan accomplish every school work and study well and Sookan is a extraordinary young woman, so she gave this present to her.
2. Ellen was engaged with Kyle and announce it in the college, but her parents were so upset and disagreed with that engagement, then Ellen has conflict with her parents.
3. Ellen's parents are upset and furious aboytvthat Ellen announced the engagement in school, they told Ellen to call it off and go back home.
4. I agree with Sookan. Because eloping is a kind of way to avoid the conflict. But engagement is an important event. If Ellen eloped with Kyle, she will have more conflict with her parents which causes worst result. Ellen should talked with her parents and try to solve the problem. And Ellen' parent loves Ellen a lot, it will hurt them if Ellen eloped.
Chapter 15
1. Sookan had positive emotion because she had a wonderful night, she enjoyed the college life, enjoyed herself and makes Ellen happy with that. She also had negative emotion because she felt guilty that she spent all of the money on the outfit even can't buy presents for families, and she thought if her sister knew this, she would say that Sookan has lost her values.
2. I would go to the dance party. Because this is the only one time in whole freshman year to have a break. And such kind of social activity is part of college life, it is important to a college student. And I don't want to be said as a bookwarm.
Chapter 16
1. Sookan has done well in study and school job, she got passing grades. She made friends with Ellen and Marci. She had her favorite art class, draw painting and gave to Marci and Ellen as presents. She bought present for her families.
2. At the beginning of the year, she felt nervous when she talked with others and have to study extremely hard. And she can't balance the time on job and study. But later, she did better. She can speak more in American ways
Chapter 17
1. Father Lee told Sookan that her mother died in the first of May.
2. Sookan shouted, sobbed and can't believe it's true.
Chapter 18
1. She realized that growing up is like the process of gathering pearls. As her mom said, she should take that suffering, and create a pearl around the pain, not let the hurt poison herself. Come through those difficulties and sadness, turn them into pearls of wisdom, make herself stronger.
2. I would say to Sookan that: you are a strong girl, although mother's death gives you hurt, you must be stronger. You have done well in the first year, maybe next year you can choose some more difficult classes or classes you like. And enjoy your college life, study and job is not everything I college after all. And try to be accepting to your sister, everyone has disadvantage, but she is your sister, that relationship is precious in the family.